When I start writing this article, three mouths had already passed. There’s no other reason for it, I just want to improve my writing skills, and…well, It feels a bit awkward to write in Chinese😊.

Not long ago, I was a new student, and everything felt fresh and exciting. I attended classes and evening study sessions regularly. But one day, I realized how meaningless they felt, so I started skipping them. At first, I feel guilty, but now? It feels completely normal!

It’s common to confuse emotional needs with physical ones, especially in college, where relationships and self-discovery play such a big role in life. In a university where most of the students are girls, it’s natural to feel a desire for romantic relationships😕. However, spending too much time on social media like X , QQ ,e.g. made me feel even more empty and lonely, which only made things worse.

Maybe focusing on self-improvement could help improve this situation. I remember a guy on Reddit who said that he’s obsessed with programming. Honestly, I don’t think there’s anything wrong with that. In fact, I wish I could love something like him.https://www.reddit.com/r/AskProgramming/comments/1hcmudq/i_feel_addicted_to_coding_and_cant_seem_to_enjoy/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web3x&utm_name=web3xcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button